In How People Change Timothy Lane and Paul Tripp provide an interesting, challenging description of a man. "He had the theological dexterity of a gymnast, but he lived like a relational paraplegic." (1)
They also list some common obstacles that "hinder redemptive relationships from developing in our lives."
Here is the list found on page 71:
1. the busyness of life, keeping relationships distant and casual.
2. a total immersion in friendships that are activity- and happiness-based
3. a conscious avoidance of close relationships as too scary or messy.
4. one-way, ministry-driven friendships in which you always minister to others, but never allow others to minister to you.
5. self-centered, "meet my felt needs" relationships that keep you always receiving but seldom giving.
6. a private, independent, "just me and God" approach to the Christian life.
7. theology as a replacement for relationship. Knowing God as a life of study, rather than the pursuit of God and His people.
Let us help people build redemptive relationships (investing oneself in the life of another in such a way that he is drawn more closely to Jesus Christ.
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